One of the biggest conspiracy theories of the modern world is this idea that men are somehow the grosser half of our species.
Having spent time working a job cleaning bathrooms in a college campus, I can tell you for a fact that it’s not even close.
With men, it’s all the usual shit that you would expect (no pun intended). With women, however, their spaces would frequently look like they had recently made a sacrifice to the demon god Nurgle.
Another myth that seems to be pervasive is the idea that men are more degenerate in terms of their sexual desires. And man, let me tell you, if you’re under that impression, it just means you haven’t found a certain corner of this website yet.
As part of another post that I was going to write, I ventured into other parts of Substack — and holy shit did I regularly stumble upon some stuff that routinely made me go “what the fuck”.
Here’s one particular comment section that stuck out to me:
Another interesting example was the woman who decided to post about her amazing boobs and then doxxed three generations of her family in back to back posts:
Or perhaps this lovely lady who decided to give us a play-by-play on her eight hour orgy:
And there’s perhaps my favorite article on this website so far, by a publication known as the “Vajenda” — titled the Menopause Estrogen Face Cream Epidemic.
And believe me, this is not even scratching the surface.
Now I can already predict a certain kind of response
There’s always someone in the comment section, ready to reply with something along the lines of: “Oh you’re just jealous of how open and free they are with their sexuality, and you’re just bitter that you can’t control them!”
Rather, in this post I’m simply attempting to point out that men are routinely demonized for fulfilling their sexual needs via porn/masturbation whenever they can’t find a romantic partner, while at the same time, women engage in the same behaviors and experience nowhere near the same level of stigma.
Empowering for me, degenerate for thee.
Young men have effectively been abandoned, and if they turn to porn/AI/OnlyFans to get any sort of reasonable simulation of connection, the near universal response will be: “AAAH WHAT A FUCKING LOSER! LOOK OVER HERE GUYS, WE’VE GOT AN INCEL!!”
And yet you regularly see articles from women along the lines of “37 new tools to DRILL your PUSSY in in ways that will MAKE YOU FEEL like you’re part of the CAST of ARMAGEDDON (number 7 will SURPRISE you!)”
You can go to any bookstore and see evidence of this double standard; much of contemporary fiction is tantamount to a female protagonist wanting to get gangbanged by two Minotaurs, a wolf, and three basilisks — all in a mediaeval backdrop, so it gives the veneer of traditional fantasy. Reading several chapters of these books is the equivalent of a gooning session.
And at the same time they will get all prudish when they learn that their fathers are brothers also consume porn. “Ew, gross, I can't believe you would disrespect women like that.”
I don’t care what these women consume; if you’re an adult, go have fun at your eight hour orgies. Spending an entire fiscal workday around latex and rickety wood is not my idea of relaxing, but to each their own.
Rather, it’s the very open double standard in the treatment of the proclivities of different groups.
It’s “don’t yuck someone’s yum” if we’re talking about women or other protected classes, and it’s “he gave me the ick” when we’re talking about men.
(As a side note, whoever’s coming up with these phrases needs to be set on fire.)
This double standard is only going to get worse
Women and progressives seem to be as lost as ever when it comes understanding men.
They seem to think that applying more pressure, more stigma, more shaming is finally going to bring men over to their side. Or, to whatever degree they try to reduce stigma, it always comes in the form of “we are giving you the space to realize how much of a piece of shit you are for being a man.”
To whatever degree they actually think or care about these issues, it's always centered around their own problems. As the saying goes, “men having a hard time, women most impacted.” Or, to borrow a diagram from my previous post.
At the same time, these large language models are only going to get better, which means that the majority of women will now have the ability to create custom generated erotica in their pockets.
So when you combine these forces, what you get is more delusion on one side, and more apathy/resentment on the other.
Anyways, just an observation.
I’m off to read the latest new fantasy book by Sara K Ass. It’s called A Court of Princes and Games and Knives and Blood and Goblins and Fibromyalgia.
Further reading:
It's almost always projection. Women accuse men of being controlling because that's exactly how they think, what they are.
For example, consider sex toys. The face of that industry is the dildo. Then think about the social reputation of sex toys used by men and you'll have another example of female hypocrisy.
"They seem to think that applying more pressure, more stigma, more shaming is finally going to bring men over to their side."
It works with other women, and many don't have the theory of mind to realize men think differently.